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Author Topic: Journal challenge #6: Self Improvement  (Read 957 times)

Offline littledragon

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Journal challenge #6: Self Improvement
« on: October 14, 2019, 07:23:47 PM »
Name 5 personal goals of self improvement as a Dominant, Switch, or submissive? Why?
Due 10/21
« Last Edit: April 13, 2020, 06:03:55 PM by Song Yung »
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Re: Journal challenge #6: Self Improvement
« Reply #1 on: October 15, 2019, 05:07:00 PM »
I am always looking for self-improvement. It need not always be about the BDSM Lifestyle.  First and foremost that should be always happening in my opinion. Life evolves. You choose to evolve, adapt or get left behind and become extinct right?

I feel learning should always be prevalent in any person and relationship. Otherwise, stagnation can cause a terrible death. I would hate to die of ignorance. Learning can lead to a choice of self-improvement.

I would like to up my game on bondage.  I learned macrame, but tying intricate knots to make pretty things and attached to rings is not the same as a human being.   Maybe it is?  Of course, inanimate objects do not complain about circulation. 

General good healthy eating is always a goal. Truth: I need to get up and eat, which is a step in the right direction. 

I seriously need to relearn Spanish. I used to know it fluently, but lack of its use has led me to stumble down a dark alley.

Patience always needs improvement, which is always a work in progress with me. I am more patient than in the past but I am still looking to acquire more.

« Last Edit: April 13, 2020, 06:00:48 PM by Song Yung »
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Journal challenge #6 self improvement
« Reply #2 on: October 19, 2019, 12:47:29 PM »
she is working on self improvement currently.
1) improving my communication, because communication can always be better.
2) working on self esteem, it helps make a good slave/sub
3) trying to become a better slave, by following her Masters rules
4) organized, if she is better organized she can’t forget things
5) respect, respect can get you far and can help portray her  Masters and her submission in a good way.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2020, 06:03:45 PM by Song Yung »
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Journal challenge #6: Self Improvement
« Reply #3 on: October 21, 2019, 05:10:20 PM »
1. Improve my communication and social skills. So they I will be prepared to bring honor into my household.
2. Improve my health so I am better able to serve.
3. Strive to learn and read each day so that I will be open to new things and new ideas.
4. To work on myself each day try to be better than the day before that I may have increased value to the one(s) I serve.
5. To love and understand myself better. accept my mistakes with an open heart and mind and to be able to forgive and learn from my mistakes.
« Last Edit: April 13, 2020, 06:03:35 PM by Song Yung »