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Chat Topics / Self Care 8PM ET

« Last post by Admin on July 21, 2020, 11:25:14 PM »

During these interesting times, we all need to take some time just for ourselves and treat ourselves with love and respect. Wednesday at 8 P.M. ET with chrissa and Kitten[Collared] Join us at http://thebdsmgarden.com/efiction/viewpage.php?page=chat
Art from https://www.raperecoverycenter.org/newsletter/2018/11/20/self-care-strategies-for-holidays

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Journal prompts / Journaling prompt for 7/20/2020

« Last post by littledragon on July 20, 2020, 07:40:06 PM »

bdsm at home, real or ideal or both?
what should subs/slaves and Dom/me wear in their ideal world for at home, at club, at formal party. describe their perfect bdsm date.

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Chat Topics / The History of Shibari 3PM ET

« Last post by Admin on July 18, 2020, 08:19:36 PM »

The History of Shibari 3PM ET with kissa and little dragon

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Chat Topics / GOR: Slaves as Treasured Property 9PM ET

« Last post by Admin on July 15, 2020, 10:23:34 AM »

GOR: Slaves as Treasured Property 9:00 PM ET with kissa.

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Journal prompts / 7/6 Journaling

« Last post by Admin on July 06, 2020, 09:36:26 PM »

So, number one, really, what are your rules? What are your MUSTS in a relationship?

is a D/s relationship a want or need? Is it somewhere in between? How important is BDSM to your inner wellbeing?

do you consider consensual slavery healthy or not? Do you think that that the desire for not having a "no" is dangerous? Do you think there is a root for it in trauma?

tell (don't show, i'm too young) how you flirt. How do YOU show someone that you're interested

For your next journal entry/talking point, write a personal ad for yourself to be published in a biggest BDSM paper in your country.

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Journal prompts / 6/29 Journaling

« Last post by Admin on June 29, 2020, 08:11:25 PM »

ideas in the attachment.

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Chat Topics / What is it that i am doing? Bottoming v submitting? 3PM ET with Pjosi

« Last post by Admin on June 24, 2020, 10:20:27 AM »

Is it submission? Is it bottoming? Is it both? What the heck am I doing?


What is it that i am doing? Bottoming v submitting? 3PM ET with Pjosi

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General / Notes from JKR Chats

« Last post by Admin on June 22, 2020, 01:37:18 AM »

Well no one says that we have to stick to canon but here:
Relevant excerpts from various chat transcripts with JKR:
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J.K. Rowling: BBC Online Chat
Red Nose Day 2001
http://history.250x.com/vaults/c118.htm

Q: How old is Prof. Dumbledore and Prof. Snape?
A: Dumbledore's about 150 years old... Wizards have a longer life expectancy than us Muggles. Snape's 35 or 36

Q: Do you need a Wand to do Magic?
A: You can do unfocused and uncontrolled magic without a wand (for instance when Harry blows up Aunt Marge), but to do really good spells, yes, you need a wand..

Q: When is Ron's Birthday?
A: First of March, in case you're thinking of sending him a card, and Hermione is the nineteenth of September..

Q: Have any of the Hogwarts professors had spouses?
A: Good question - yes, a few of them, but that information is sort of restricted - you'll find out why..

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".....What I find interesting is only once has anyone said to me, "Don't kill Hermione," and that was after a reading when I said no one's ever worried about her. Another kid said, "Yeah, well, she's bound to get through O.K." They see her as someone who is not vulnerable, but I see her as someone who does have quite a lot of vulnerability in her personality. Hermione is me, near enough. A caricature of me when I was younger. I wasn't that clever. But I was that annoying on occasion. Girls are very tolerant of her because she is not an uncommon female type--the little girl who feels plain and hugely compensates by working very hard and wanting to get everything just so." - JK Rowling

http://history.250x.com/vaults/a101.htm

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"...I love Nabokov...." - JK Rowling

http://history.250x.com/vaults/c103.htm

<<< (insert Autumnmist's comment here:) >>>
Nabokov, the author of Lolita - young girl/older man relationship (among other things...)

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Q: I'm a big fan of yours, and I hope you can answer this question: Why would you use most of the names in the book written in Latin?
A: I like to think that the wizards use this dead language as a living language, and it also gives readers a chance to work out clues along the way!

Q: Who is the head of Ravenclaw? Professor Sinistra perhaps?
A: No, the head of Ravenclaw is good old Professor Flitwick!

http://history.250x.com/vaults/c103.htm

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Q: Is there ever going to be female Defense Against The Dark Arts teacher?
A: Emily, I can exclusively reveal (because I'm feeling guilty I'm not answering so many good questions) that there WILL be.

Q: Why did you make Quirrell the bad guy instead of Snape?
A: Because I know all about Snape, and he wasn't about to put on a turban.

http://history.250x.com/vaults/c107.htm

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Q: If Harry had a magic duel with Hermione, who would win?
A: Very good question! Because until about halfway through Azkaban, Hermione would have won. But Harry - without anyone really noticing it - is becoming exceptionally good at Defence Against the Dark Arts. So that's the one area in which, almost instinctively, he is particularly talented. Apart from Quidditch.

http://history.250x.com/vaults/c113.htm

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Chat Topics / Poly with Zerasan and Uraje 4PM ET

« Last post by Admin on June 21, 2020, 07:09:38 PM »

Poly with Zerasan and Uraje 4PM ET

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The Writer's Corner / Forever and a day

« Last post by Admin on June 19, 2020, 07:59:38 PM »

My challenge is :

Lose plot:
Hermione and Severus fall in love.
Hermione gets pregnant she dies the child survives,
Severus is broken but pulls it together for the sake of their child. 
After fifteen years Hermione appears pregnant. Everything ends beautifully.

Specifications:

Must be set in the seventh year.

Voldemort is still about and getting stronger and more focused on Hogwarts.

Malfoy is very unhappy with Hermione making Severus happy,
and would like himself and Hermione to get together so he doesn’t have to work for Voldemort.

Hermione uses a time turner to save herself and the unborn child.
but with the difficulties of time travel she takes fifteen years to come back,
and the sex of the baby is changed.

Hermione turns up in Severus’s rooms, still looking as old as she did when she died.

Severus can either accept her with open arms or not,
but when she first appears he is all over her.