BDSM Bingo

[DTM (Wet and grey)]

Okay.  I thought I would start this as a blog but in hindsight think the forum may be a better way to go.  As this is definitely a work in progress and just something that was floating around in my head.

I'll give the basic outline of what I was imagining here and the reasoning behind it.

What I really need is help refining the concept and ideas for kinks.  You'll see what I mean as you read along.

And this could also be called "Kink Bingo" or any of a zillion other names.  Just BDSM Bingo came to my mind first. Go figure?

So the idea is this is a way for a D/s couple to explore limits.  Primarily the sub exploring her limits with her Dom. (Yes I'm going with she/ sub and He/ Dom. I'm a lazy typer. Deal with it.)

In addition this requires the Dom to be creative.  As there are no written rules for things to try.

A basic bingo board is created with the typical B-I-N-G-O across the top.  Then numbers down the columns.  I'd suggest 5-10-15-30-and 60 maybe.  Can be any set of numbers.

The "Free" square in the middle is called "Dom's choice".

There's the set up.  Will finish later.

[saguaro]

That's all you're giving me? Oh come on!!!!! Can't you even tell me a little bit? Or does the Snake get to know it all?

[DTM (Wet and grey)]

Some people. Geesh!    

I had to go make dinner and relax a bit and... ummm.... ermmmm... test out some plumbing.  Yes.  That's my story.....

Anyways....

So to let a sub explore her limits and let the Dom see where those might be the game could go something like this......

He pulls a piece of paper from the hat/ tumbler/ brain, etc. etc.

Reads the letter/ number combo out....

B-15

Now before she can mark the square she has to perform the kink.  Which in this case might be Bondage - 15 minutes.

Which means he gets to tie her up any way he wants and leave her like that for 15 minutes.

Once she has completed that she gets to mark the square and he calls the next combo. Let's say....

I-5 (no. Not the interstate freeway!)

This might be Ice - 5 minutes.

He gets to apply ice to anywhere on her for the next 5 minutes.

Get the idea?

And if she is feeling adventurous and wants the middle square she can ask for Dom's choice.  And he can require anything for any amount of time.  Needless to say the very evil Dom will make it impossible to get a bingo without using this square. (Hint, hint V!)

The goal of the sub is to make a Bingo on her card before she has to use her safe word.  That's the testing of limits part of this.  Also why it needs to be thought out ahead of time and the Dom needs to know where those boundaries are.

In my case the goal would not be to make my sub stop playing but instead find those limits and boundaries.  Use it as a fun way to incorporate several kinks in a short period of time.  Of course others Doms might find the challenge to be making their sub stop the game.  Totally up to the people playing.

*glances slyly at V and sis*

I mean who knows what others might like about this game?

So the help I need is creating a list of kinks/ tasks/ commands that incorporate the letters B-I-N-G-O.

I also want some general feedback and thoughts about this if anyone would care to comment.  As I said this is something in my head only and I need to refine it.  Maybe even get some couples to test it out for me? *grins*

I have come up with the following for the letters.  Any other ideas would be appreciated! Thanks.

B
Butt play
Bondage
Bending
Bull Whip
Butt Hook
Ball Gag
Bastinado
Breast Bondage
Butt Plug
Breath Control
I
Ice
Insertion
Impact Play
Inversion Table
Impalement
Inflation
Isolation Hood
N
Nadu
Nipple clamps
Needle Play
Nails Raking on Skin
Nyotaimori
G
Gag
Greek *smiles*
Good Pain
Genitorture
O
Orgasm Control
Orgasm Denial
Over the Knee
Objectify

[Viper16]

I like the middle square rule. EG!

will  gather my thoughts and add some suggestions.

[saguaro]

HEY!!!! Don't give him any hints!!!!  The premise sounds good Bro.  You can also make more than one card, have the cards graduate so to speak with limits and duration as the squares become let's say easier  .

Can't believe you forgot Oral in the "O"

*ponders more*

[DTM (Wet and grey)]

Oral... Doh!  I can't believe it either!

[saguaro]

N-
Nipple Torture

G-
G-Spot
Golden Shower (well it's a "g" dammit")
Genital sex

I -
Immobilize

B-
Ball Torture (HEY got to have it go both ways ya know, well not both ways, but for both gender subs)
Beating
Blindfold

[Haruhifan]

If I may add:

B-Bukkake (term in Japanese for many men and sometimes women ejaculating on a person)
Bimbo (well as a word I guess if you're for that)

I-Intimate, Iceplay

N-Nipple Ring

G-Gigalo, Giggety Goo (if you Watch Quagmire on Family Guy)

O-Oral Sex

[saguaro]

Great additions Haru...

So Bro, how does this all work out, the cards are made individually, just like a bingo card?  How does one decide what "b" activity is chosen, is there a theme for the card?  Like i mean the b column, would it be all bondage for example, every number in the b column for that card would represent how long a person stays in bondage?  Or is each square a different B activity?

[dweaver999]

This is a cool idea.  Would you mind if I used it in a future story (I'm an author)?

BTW did anyone think of Breath play for B?

[cis]

dweaver,

DTM is on holiday for a few weeks but he'll be back (eventually) to answer you!
Welcome to TM!

[Tamin]

A few more additions:

Beg
Isolation
Nadu position
Ginger
Olfactory stimulation

[janey]

I was thinking of those of us without a D/ or /s and if we could join in? Is it possible to tie yourself up for 10 minutes?

[saguaro]

Sure  there's always ways to self restrain.  I mean I've heard there is, not that I would know such things mind you. *coughs delicately*

[DTM (Wet and grey)]

Oops!

Sorry for falling off the face of the earth there for a bit.  I decided to ignore the laws of gravity for a bit. Big mistake. Huge!!  *grins*

dweaver999- Please feel free to use the idea in your story.  I'd be flattered.  And as anyone who knows me would tell you I soooo hate being flattered!

janey.  Just be sure if you follow saguaro's advice you leave an "untie" option.  Although I'm sure she has never done that before. *coughs*

Tamin.  Nice additions!  Even spelled a bingo. (As I'm sure you know)  But what would "ginger" involve?  The food stuff or dressing up as said character from Gilligan's Island?  Inquiring minds want to know!

Thanks for all the comments on the game folks. Much appreciated!

DTM